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 Tips, tricks and great information from bjcounsels.com 19 December 03 
Contents
  • Candle With Care!
  • A Very Special Offer
  • Groups!
  • Refer Me!
  • On the Horizon
  • See You Next Week!

  • Dear Bj,

    Light 'er up!

    It's the eve of the Festival of Lights and my neighborhood is ablaze with twinkly-blinkly Christmas lights. Sunday marks the Solstice, as the light of the sun returns, which means that our days will get incrementally longer and Spring is around the corner! (Okay, it's a pretty cold, slushy corner for some of us, but use your imagination!)

    In the spirit of the holidays, my heart is alight with the warmth of affection and appreciation. Thank you so much for allowing me into your life, for sending me your ideas and issues and for striving to be the best that you can be. I am so blessed by you.

    I know you are busy, so I'm keeping this edition very short. I've got some cool tips for those hot holiday candles, along with a very special offer for getting the New Year off to a great start.

    Candle With Care!
    I'm a big candle fan. I love their warmth and glow, but I'm also borderline-paranoid about fire and I don't like a mess. Today's gift is a series of tried and true candle care tips, including a surprising one involving spagetti!

    Indoor air pollution
    Did you know that most of the cheaper, scented candles have lead in their wicks these days? Makes them stand up, all perky.

    Yup. You can have your very own, 'spice surprise' lead smelter right under your nose! Make sure to buy only fiber wicks to avoid infusing your home with heavy metal. You can tell which is which by fraying the end of a wick a tiny bit. If you see something stiff and shiny poking out, put it back. Cotton wicks are easily bent.

    Scents can be lovely, but for a healthier alternative to the aforementioned cheaper, scented candles that use goodness knows what chemicals to create their smells, try rubbing an essential oil on the outside of an unscented candle (never near the wick). As the wax warms up, the pure scent will be released. Generally, this method makes for less overpowering odors too.

    Always remember to trim the wick to about 1/4 inch before burning a candle. This cuts down on smoke and uneven burning while increasing the life of your candle.

    Longevity
    While an extinguished candle is still warm (but not hot!), you can use a warm knife, (I keep a dull old knife for this very purpose) to trim the excess wax and make it like new.

    Prior to burning taper candles wrap them in plastic wrap or foil and place in the freezer for approximately 30-60 minutes. They last longer and drip less.

    Lighting
    Don't have any long matches to light that certain candle? Substitute a long piece of uncooked spaghetti! Light one end, and use it like the tapers you see in churches! Keep a glass of water handy to put the flaming pasta out.

    The first time you light a pillar candle, let it burn long enough for the wax to melt outward from the wick to close (but not too close!) to the edge. Avoid dripping by making sure the candle keeps a good 'lip' around the outside. This way, each time you light it, the candle will 'remember' to burn toward the edge. This increases the life of the candle and avoids that annoying crater you sometimes get in the middle.

    Before putting a new votive candle in a container, especially an odd shaped or glass one put a little water in the bottom. It will keep wax from sticking to the glass as it melts and can be removed very easily.

    Fire
    We all know not to leave a candle unattended, near flammable objects or in the reach of kids/pets, right? Good. Also, don't let candles in glass containers burn unevenly or long enough to crack the glass. You don't need a lava flow on your nice table. Never use water to extinguish a candle and don't blow directly on the flame either. Both methods can cause splattering and burns. Use a snuffer or give it a gentle puff of air, perpendicular to the flame.

    A Very Special Offer
    What is that one issue, that ONE question that once you get it sorted out, you'll be free to get on with a happier, easier life?

    Here is your chance to get a handle on it!

    For a limited time only, you can get 50 minutes of powerfully insightful, potentially life-changing coaching for the low price of $50.

    At the end of the session, you will either have a solution or an action plan for moving forward. Satisfaction Guaranteed. Call send an email or 1.866.821.9386 to make your appointment.

    Groups!
    Momentum is building.

    The Strong Women/Wise Choices group is getting off the ground. There has also been a great deal of interest in building a couple's group around my popular relationships class: BEing in Relationships™.

    I'm thrilled!

    Email me, or call 1.866.821.9386 if you'd like information about joining these groups.

    The group experience is powerful and motivating. I hope you'll join us!

    Refer Me!
    If you're thinking, "I know someone who could really use Bj!" please let them know about www.bjcounsels.com and my services.

    It's quick and easy.

    Click How to refer Bj below and you will be taken to my referral page that has all the information you need, plus, a handy, downloadable tipsheet that features more detailed information about the people and issues I like to work with best.

    Thank you very, very much.

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    On the Horizon
    In this space, you'll find information about upcoming events, product launches and opportunities for growth.

    Beginning January 13, 2004, I'll be teaching a new class at Unity of Washington DC.

    You Choose!
    Discover 5 Powerful Strategies for Growing Happiness and Reducing Fear

    • Learn to identify, understand, evaluate and make use of your fears
    • Practice new patterns that lead to a happier, healthier you

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    See You Next Week!
    May your holiday's glow warm and bright.
    With warmest appreciation,

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